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An interesting trend has emerged in recent years.
More and more pastors and judicatories are attempting to transition the churches
under their care from dying to thriving. We began to notice this four years ago
on one of our online forums. I asked one group what church leaders needed most
from our organization. The overwhelming response: “We need help turning our
churches around.” So we added a “Turn Around Seminar” to our offerings the next
year, and it filled up in one week. We continued to offer these seminars.
Pastors and judicatories from many denominations ask us, “Can you help us
transition some of our dying churches?”
One would think that the majority of parishioners
would welcome such a chance to turn their church from dying to thriving, but not
so. The more the pastors try to transition a church, the more hostility they
experience from their church leaders and often from the denomination. Many such
pastors find themselves in serious trouble or even lose their pulpits. An odd
situation, considering Christianity’s foundation of repentance, change, and
transition.
Growing signs of stress among pastors accompany
this growing awareness of the need for transition. More and more pastors begin
looking forward, early in their careers, to retirement. Many actually retire
earlier than ever before. Many drop out of pastoral ministry. Many bypass
established denominations and plant independent churches. Too many pastors
simply give up and live with congregational death all around them, as if no hope
of transition existed. And worst of all, clergy addiction of one kind or another
appears to be at an all-time high.
It might be helpful to examine where stress points
appear most often in transitional ministries and what pastors can do to reduce
the stress. If you find yourself thinking about trying to transition your church
or if you are in the midst of transition, read on.
What to Do about Stress Points
Pastors and their spouses often face major stress
when one or more of the following situations happen.
1. When controllers are pressured to leave
office. We have seen very few turnarounds take place without replacing most
of the present leaders. It is usually unwise to think that the same people who
got the church into its current mess can lead it out of the mess. The number one
lesson I have learned in these Turn Around Seminars is to encourage the pastor
to gather and nurture a team of called, gifted, and equipped laity before
beginning the turnaround. Only when the group appears biblically and spiritually
mature enough should the pastor begin to prayerfully and lovingly replace the
leaders. Often this process takes up to a year.
2. When making the attempt either to change an
existing worship service or begin an additional worship service. We know
from experience that the easiest way to turn around a church is to begin a new
worship service designed in a way that today’s person can hear the gospel.
However, if the leaders have no clue about the essential mission of God’s church
or if they prefer for the church to remain a cozy little club or family chapel,
conflict erupts. If the new service succeeds, the conflict often gets worse.
Turnaround pastors commonly hear these negative responses: “But we won’t know
everyone anymore” or “That kind of music doesn’t belong in the church.” These
are unhealthy responses. How much better to grow healthy leaders who understand
the biblical mission before trying to transition the church! The goal? To
develop people who ask, “Does everyone in our area know God?” instead of “Do we
know everyone?” and “Will that kind of music help people worship God?” instead
of “That’s not our kind of music.” One more thing . . . Add a new worship
service instead of trying to change or blend an existing one.
3. When the pastor begins breaking the
personal-chaplain mold and begins trying to be a leader. Such action always
results in a shift in emphasis: The “clergy equip the laity to do the ministry”
rather than the “laity run the church and clergy do the ministry.” Of all the
trends underway today, this is THE Biggie. We see very few churches turning
around where the paid staff does most or all of the ministry. This transition
also takes a lot of time. One of the best cures for opposition to lay ministry
occurs when lay people begin to experience the joy of doing ministry themselves,
as well as being ministered to by equipped laity. The key: Go slowly, and
seriously equip the laity for ministry. Begin the process by training new people
to expect laity to minister to them instead of the paid staff’s tending to their
every need. Next, begin to ask, “Who among our members will accept ministry from
the hands of laity?” Let the laity minister to them while the pastor and/or
staff continue to minister to those who expect you to play “pastor fetch.” When
this transition begins, the pastor will have to do most of the ministering to
people. Over time, the majority of the church will welcome being ministered to
by laity.
4. When the transition begins to cost money.
Most dying churches have money in the bank that they’ve saved for a rainy day.
However, no one seems to recognize the Ark passing by each day. Younger leaders
have to remember that most often, older members’ experiences during the
Depression and World War II fuel this passion to save money. Such passion,
though misdirected, is still understandable. We have learned that leaders in
churches with fewer than 125 in worship need to look for ways to implement the
transition with as little cost as possible. We turned around the church I
pastored for twenty-four years without spending a dime. Often, this size of
church can grow simply because the pastor spends as much time as possible out of
the office and away from the flock without losing the pulpit. It is possible for
a pastor single-handedly and within one year to bring fifty people into a small
church (one located in a populated area). Such a number of additions in a small
church can change the makeup of the entire church.
5. When a desire for high commitment begins to
encroach upon the entitlements usually afforded to longtime members. We know
that the higher the standards placed on church leaders, the healthier the church
becomes. However, making this shift causes conflict. Longtime members who feel
entitled to all of the benefits of membership become upset when encouraged to
act like servants who exist on behalf of the non-Christian people around them.
This conflict often surfaces when leaders try to rearrange the way the church
spends money, targeting more of it toward non-Christians; or when paid staff
begin devoting more time to non-Christians than to members; or when members are
asked to park farther from the church to make room for visitors; or when some
higher standards are applied to membership and leadership. Church leaders often
find that they have to “grandfather” the longtime members and apply the new
standards only to the new people coming into the church, at least at first.
6. When new leaders make mistakes trying to
implement the innovations. The opposition uses the mistakes as an excuse to
say, “I told you so,” and begins to stir up the conflict even further. The best
way to deal with this stress: Admit and celebrate the mistakes as a great time
for learning, instead of trying to justify the failed action.
7. When churches with paid staff find that
before the turnaround can happen, they must replace some long-term paid staff.
The staff that most often have to be replaced are the longtime secretaries who
refuse to use 21st century technology or who use their position to slow down the
transition; the choir directors who try to sabotage the new worship service; or
the part-time financial secretaries who tell less than the truth about the
church’s financial health, hoping that bad news will discourage people from
starting new ministries.
Tips For Turnaround Pastors
Keep your own faith strong. Take time for regular
Bible study and prayer each day. Get away from the church on a regular basis so
that you have space to dream and ponder and be filled with wonder once again.
Keep in mind that congregations are seldom healthier than their spiritual
leaders.
Embody servanthood in everything that you do
before beginning the turnaround. Everything you do needs to scream
servanthood.
Keep in mind that turning a church around usually
involves spiritual warfare, not just differing opinions. Sometimes evil is the
opposition. Most pastors do not understand this. Being naive about the guerilla
tactics of dysfunctional leaders has caused many pastors to lose their pulpits.
Be prepared for conflict. Never take opposition
personally. You don’t have this luxury. You must be the spiritual leader of the
church even in the midst of conflict. If you respond personally, you raise the
level of conflict beyond the ability to overcome. Instead, you must pray for the
opposition. Learn from those opposing you, but do not let them set the course
for the church if you are convinced the church must change or die.
Realize that the higher your spiritual gift of
mercy, the more difficult the turnaround will be for you. Turnaround pastors are
often called on to choose the mission over the interests or desires of
individuals, even those close to them. People with high mercy gifts find this
decision hard to make. They also tend to take things more personally than they
can afford to and survive the turnaround. So if your mercy gift is high,
consider the costs. Then if you decide to proceed, surround yourself with people
with low mercy gifts.
Keep your focus on developing spiritual giants
instead of developing new programs or worship services. Focus on growing people,
not the church.
Make sure you are secure enough not to worry about
job security or feeding your family. Another way to say it: If you’re convinced
a turnaround is what God wants you to do, then if you lose your pulpit, have
confidence that God will open up another place for you to serve.
Make sure you are in the turnaround for the long
haul and aren’t going to jump ship at the first sign of mutiny. To do so
destroys the hope of those who want change and increases the power of those who
don’t want change.
Prepare your new key leaders by not over-promising
and under-preparing. Leaders need to know what to expect before
committing to the turnaround. They should never be surprised.
Plan one or two quick victories, especially in the
really small church. People need to have something to celebrate in the early
part of the actual transition.
After all of this, the best advice is to “Follow
the passion of your call.” If you feel transition is what needs to occur, start
it. If you’re not sure, or if you consider it only because so many of your
colleagues are doing it, forget it.
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